The More The Merrier

In Vietnamese weddings, it is common to invite a much larger number of guests compared to weddings in Japan. In addition to family, relatives, coworkers, and friends, even neighbors or people the couple has interacted with just once may be invited. This reflects the Vietnamese culture that values human connections, and the couple’s desire to have as many people as possible witness this important milestone. It’s not unusual for 200 to 300 guests to gather at the venue.

Flexible Dress Code

In Vietnamese weddings, there is no strict dress code like “suits” or “pastel-colored dresses.” Some guests wear formal clothes, while others come in casual outfits. Especially in rural areas, it's common for guests to wear something close to everyday clothes. However, if you are close to the bride and groom (like a best friend or sibling), it’s polite to dress up nicely. Since there are many photo opportunities, guests often care about how they look, and recently, more young people enjoy dressing up for the occasion.

The Money Gift

Since many of you will be traveling all the way from Japan to Vietnam, please feel free to join the wedding WITHOUT bringing any monetary gift. Guests in Vietnam may bring cash gifts as part of the local custom, but please don’t feel obligated — just come in and enjoy the celebration with us.

This wedding will be a simplified version. In a traditional Vietnamese wedding, various ceremonies are held starting about a week before the actual wedding day. If you're interested, feel free to check the links below:
▹ What is a Vietnamese wedding like?
▹ Vietnamese Wedding Guide | Key Differences & Tips for Attending